For a friend
There is someone you think about at every chasunah.
A cousin, a neighbor, a friend from yeshiva or seminary. Some singles will not sign up on their own. A friend can do it for them, with their knowledge, and become their advocate.
Free. Confidential. Seen only by the shadchanim in our office.
How an advocate works.
Ask first.
The single knows and agrees. The advocate confirms that in writing when creating the profile.
Add the résumé.
The one that is already going around, and nothing beyond it.
Be the contact.
Suggestions and calls from a shadchan come to the advocate, who brings them to the single or the family.
The yes is theirs.
An advocate carries a suggestion. Only the single or the parents answer it.
A mutual yes.
A shadchan in the office speaks to the families directly from there.
An advocate can also sponsor.
$30 a month puts a friend on Weekly Suggestions. The system looks every week, and the suggestions come to the advocate.
The same confidentiality as every profile.
Seen only by the vetted shadchanim in our office. The single can have the profile removed with one call.
Do the hishtadlus for someone else.
It costs nothing, nobody outside the office sees it, and the only thing that can come of it is a suggestion.